Have you ever sat down and reminisced about great memories in the past and felt that you were better then? Well, I have only one thing to ask you... Why? Why do we constantly live in little yesterdays of our past and wonder why we aren't happy within today? The answer to that question is things are better than they seem when we are actually living it through memories. We don't see the little horrible details that we should see. We probably weren't better then and we are more than likely creating great memories right now, but we are to busy looking through our "rose-colored glasses" to see that things weren't all that great. For example, Why didn't things work out with that ex that you love oh so much? Because he neglected you, left you feeling lonely, and was irresponsible. That's not what you remember though. You remember that you were together for three years, had a great life, and you did a lot for him and the relationship. You don't remember the nights you sat up crying and wondering when things would get better and/or change. Everything in life is a cycle and happens for a reason beyond our control. Some times, we don't understand why things are the way they are, but why do we question it anyways? Instead of living for yesterday, how about you begin to live for today and appreciate everything you have included in your life now. Besides, you only live once... Cherish it.
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